Most of us have seen at least one episode of the TV hit show Intervention. They show graphic images of the addict using, the families talk about the pain cause by the person’s drinking or drug use, then the big drama filled secret meeting showing the person hopefully going off to treatment. A family contacted me recently wanting an intervention. I asked the Mother who appeared to be the enabler to come to my office to discuss the situation. In our session we discussed the issue at hand devised our next steps, she went home to speak with the other family members. We set up a meeting with siblings and close relatives, invited the addicted individual, making sure no one was being secretive. The addicted individual knew they were coming to discuss the issue at hand. I tell family member to say to the addict, “I would like you to come to help me deal with this issue.” Nine times out of ten the person will come to the meeting. Everyone showed up to the appointment with the addicted individual in tow. We met for about an hour and a half, the addict family member left agreeing to go to treatment. My services were about $300.00 for the intervention. Not everyone can do an intervention this way. They had the resources to set up a treatment facility on the Mainland. They had plenty of family members to stay with the person and keep the momentum going. I was told it took 2 hours to get the person in the car to go to the airport. They had someone stay with him in California for a few day during detox so they were the exception rather then the rule. The addict is in long term treatment and hopefully they will stay. The family will need to do their own work because they become as sick if not sicker then addict. Interventions come in all different sizes and shapes. Interventions work but it takes a lot of effort on the part of everyone involved to make it sucessful long term.
I receive calls from adult children of alcoholic parents, concerned about their parents drinking or use of prescription drugs. Sometimes these adult children live on the Mainland and the parents winter or live on Maui full time. This video (found on Huffington Post) has great information regarding intervening on older adults. There are treatment centers on the Mainland that specialize in the older Adult population. Give me a call I’m happy to help. (808) 234-9838